Cultivate Judgment

What is surprising is when smart people have formal discussions about important topics and still end up making really bad decisions that can result in disaster. Take a deep breath in for three seconds, exhale slowly for three seconds; Dr Jerry Jampolsky defines forgiveness as giving up all hope for …

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Offering Words Of Encouragement

In my article Parenthood Without Hassles--Well Almost, I included the Child's Ten Commandments. It does not permit cruelty to man or animal in any manner or for any reason. You'll find some of my favorite tasty recipes that are easy to make at home, as well as easy breakdowns of …

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You Don't Know What It Is

The treatment combines mindfulness practices with standard CBT concepts such as psychoeducation, cognitive restructuring, and behavioral experiments. Time spent with them and others in Asia, Latin America, and the Middle East taught me that I was severely crippled because my culture did not provide comparable techniques. A body-worker helps soften …

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Evaluate Your Time Usage

In one odd little study, psychologist Ibrahim Senay and colleagues at the University of Illinois demonstrated the benefits of this approach. In other words, there is a likely mismatch between the inside feelings and the external feelings a person projects to the people around him. But community involvement can be …

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Promoting A Culture For Learning

You might know the parable of the monk who comes down from the mountain. It is worth noting that, in the rocks and mines simulation, the artificial brain came to make the discrimination with a degree of accuracy that even surpassed that of experienced human sonar operators on a long …

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Wanting It To Go Away

God's Word gives us effective guidelines to follow. Personally, I still use Facebook, but now I use it the way I want instead of the way Facebook intended. There are still days when I white-knuckle it through each hour, waiting for the painful panic to subside a little more. This …

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Love Is Actually Accepting

Pressure is used in the same direction as the body hair (along arterial flow). Take some psychological testing, was one response. Finally, with the spectre of being scooped, Darwin felt the necessity of publication--and with the support and urging of his friends, he worked day and night on the manuscript …

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Building Your Own Mental Model

When I read a article that Frank hadn't even heard of because he was flying planes and earning money to pay the therapy bills, I was angry when he didn't understand the new must-do technique we needed to implement with Elliot. Not to mention advocacy through proximity, time together, the …

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The Benefits Of Self-Talk

If I had time I might go through just about every substance in my protocol and cite the scientific studies that testify to the different health-enhancing properties these supplements, vitamins, minerals, and herbs have exhibited. Throughout the article, I use the term defensive mode to describe the times when we're …

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Is It Necessary?

So in 1963 the FDA created the Drug Efficacy Study Implementation, or DESI, a program that retested thousands of drugs to see whether they actually did what they said they did. Winning the war means living a productive, happy life and making your dreams come true! The family re-visited the …

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We're Failing To Communicate

Swelling and inflammation are not your friends, and they limit your knee's ability to move freely, which isn't great for being able to walk or do your favorite types of exercises. And they tend to reflect your unique life stories, lenses through which you view the world, genetic influences, and …

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Live According To Human Nature

This is really unrelated to the topic, but it is a fun fact to know. Though I'm not aiming to achieve the same state, we all need conviction, like my friend. Anchors of attention you can offer students and clients practicing mindfulness--besides the sensation of the breath in the abdomen …

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Manipulation Techniques

There is some risk of that if you summarize only the factual ideas and content, and not the feelings. She passed away and never returned the affection he desired. However, Yoga is atypical from other Western psychological interventions in some significant ways, and the distinction lies in the word "mindfulness-based …

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Giving Up Submission For Lent

Like a thief outside of your palace doors, they are too afraid of what they may find inside. At about mile 13, I was already tired, so Jamie and I started a walk-run strategy. And while supporting your clients, you may have begun to think deeply about existential realities that …

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Make Time For Determination Today

I once sat in on a budget meeting with a CEO and his division heads. They also sang a mystical anthem composed by the twentieth-century musician Francis Poulenc, using the words of Saint Francis of Assisi: Lord, I beg you, let the burning and tender power of your love consume …

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Main Types Of Empaths

As May Sarton wrote, in her novel As We Are Now, published when she was sixty-one, The trouble is, old age is not interesting until one gets there. Instead, it leads to even more potential problems. Fortunately, you can develop the habit of getting things done by adopting daily rituals …

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The Summer Of 1955

The point is that, throughout my life, my boyhood passion for sports has served and continues to serve me well. I like talking to him about my work even when it's not directly connected with his field, because I've noticed he always challenges and shifts my thinking. Most people who …

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